What is My favourite kink...?

I have had so many subs ask the age-old question, what is My favourite kink? So, I endeavour to answer this here and now. Firstly, I need to say that there are honestly so many!

I remember a time, when My favourite type of sessions were interrogation ‘role plays’, but the interrogation was less a role play and more real. I don’t dabble much in fantasy. We would discuss limits beforehand and lead up to the day over a number of sessions, but mainly, we would discuss the thing that they could be broken/interrogated about. A deep dark secret that they needed to have tortured out of them. It is incredibly cathartic for many people. I still have a special place for it.

Since the first days of enjoying play in a dungeon, I have discovered so much about Myself and what I enjoy. And it doesn’t all solely include torture! I have come to love the art of bondage, shibari and other methods of binding a submissive, both they and I find it a meditative process and indeed, very arousing!

In Japan, there is a long and complex history with feet. The soles are seen as especially dirty, even the feet themselves must be separated from the household/temple etc. and putting on slippers is a must. With this as My background, I didn't engage in foot worship when I first became a Domme. It was only after some time that I became curious and wanted to know what all the hype was about. I will never forget My first foot worship session. The submissive kissed and worshipped My feet in a way I had never even considered, it was both strange and intriguing. Since then, I have come to enjoy foot worship in a way that transcends the usual 'get down and kiss My feet' routine. It is a true show of respect and a privilege for a submissive to both tend to and worship My feet. To this day, it is something I deeply enjoy.

Over time, the combination of both the physical and psychological aspects of play are what truly make me tick. Why have a slice when you can have it all? I know that for some people, it is just the kink or even a 'spank and a wank'. But that just isn't enough for me. I want deep fulfilling play with another that leaves us both wanting more. Something that connects us with a part of ourselves and the other in a truly gratifying way. As a Dominant, I can't get this just by having a kink, as such. I find it paramount to have chemistry with the person I am playing with. With these combined, it makes for the perfect session.

Overall, I think it's pretty evident when I say that I have so many kinks, so many things I enjoy in (and out) of session, it's not as simple as giving a one sentence answer when I am asked that question. And there is always something new to learn. I've recently become obsessed with hypnosis for example, I really love how the trust and psychology of it all leaves My submissives like putty in My hands. I have a proclivity for introducing it in session (with consent of course) and having them fall under My spell further.

Having said all of that, there is one thing that I really do love, that I cannot deny and has become an absolute fetish of mine. I just love making a sub come to love whatever it is I enjoy, even if they have no interest in it or even hate it. This is by far My biggest 'kink' and one of the many ways I adore making a sub Mine.