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- Akari'sDungeon
- Jan 24, 2025
- 3 min read
Devotion:
The sustained, voluntary offering of self to a Superior. Expressed daily through obedience, service, sacrifice, and tribute. Unlike fleeting submission, true devotion demands consistency- the reward is the honour of being useful to their Dominant.
Discipline:
Structured correction of behaviour, attitude, or performance via rules, punishment, or reinforcement. Delivered calmly and deliberately — never in anger — to mould the submissive into better behaviour. Includes corporal methods, denial, or additional tasks.
Denial:
Intentional withholding of orgasm, touch, attention, privileges, or release. One of the most potent tools of control; the resulting frustration and ache refocus the mind entirely on the Owner’s pleasure and whims.
https://www.loveandvibes.co.uk/blog/tease-and-denial-the-bdsm-technique-that-will-drive-you-wild
Domination:
The active assertion of authority and power over another. Encompasses psychological, physical, financial, and ritual control. For Me, it is innate and absolute within negotiated limits — a form of our reality.
Dominant (also Dom, Domme, Mistress):
The one who holds and exercises power in a D/s dynamic. Responsible for guidance, decisions, consequences, and care. The role is earned through skill, intent, and the willing surrender of others.
Dungeon:
A dedicated space equipped for intense play: restraints, impact implements, cages, benches, crosses, and more. The environment itself reinforces vulnerability and submission before any command is spoken.
Debt:
Accumulated obligation — financial from tributes and indulgences, emotional from time invested, or psychological from deepened dependency. Submissives often embrace sinking further into debt as a form of binding chain.
General BDSM financial/power context (related to findom dynamics)
Dehumanisation:
Treating or reducing the submissive to an object, animal, piece of furniture, or mere function. Achieved through language, posture, ignoring, or utility-focused play. When consensual and intentional, it dissolves ego, leaving pure service.
Drain (also findom drain, wallet drain):
The purposeful, controlled extraction of resources — usually financial — leaving the submissive lighter in wallet and clearer in mind. Sessions often combine verbal commands, teasing, and escalating sends for maximum emptying.
D/s (Dominance/submission or Dominant/submissive):
The core power-exchange framework: one leads decisively, the other obeys completely. Asymmetrical by design — the submissive exists to serve the Dominant’s will. Anything less is negotiation, not true dynamic.
Disobedience:
Any failure to comply promptly, precisely, or enthusiastically. Always corrected with appropriate consequence. The anticipation of discipline often proves more shaping than the act itself.
Double Domme (or Duo Domination):
Scenes or sessions involving two (or more) Dominants exerting control over one or more submissives. Amplifies intensity and overwhelm through coordinated commands, contrasting styles, and shared authority.
Dildo:
A phallic toy used for penetration, training, or humiliation. In My hands, often deployed as a tool to stretch and remind the submissive of their holes’ purpose.
Degradation:
Verbal or physical lowering of status — insults, objectification, mockery, or acts designed to humble. Highly individual; what humiliates one may empower another. Always rooted in prior consent and aftercare consideration.
Dom/me drop (sub drop, Dom drop):
Both Dominant and submissive can experience a 'drop' after a scene. Although it is more often experienced by the submissive. Emotional/physiological low after intense play or power exchange. It can also include fatigue or responsibility weight.
Dominatrix:
A female Dominant, often professional, who specialises in administering control, discipline, and fetish fulfilment. The term evokes, authority, discipline and unapologetic power — a title I wear with effortless entitlement.
Daddy Dom (or DD/lg/lb dynamic):
A nurturing yet authoritative Dominant who incorporates caregiving, rules, praise, and punishment into the power exchange. These dynamics are not gender bound.
https://www.bemorekinky.com/blog/roles/gentle-domination/daddy-dom-meaning-ddlg-relationships
Domestic Discipline (DD):
A lifestyle dynamic where the Dominant enforces household rules and corrects infractions with spanking, chores, or other punishments. Blends everyday structure with erotic authority to maintain order and submission.
Dog Training (puppy play, pup play):
Role-play reducing the submissive to a canine: commands, leashes, cages, tricks, tail plugs, and rewards/punishments. Emphasises loyalty, obedience, and primal instincts under Owner control. The precise meaning for each individual may differ.
Deep Throat Training:
Progressive exercises to condition the throat for full, relaxed accommodation of cock or toys. Involves gagging control, breath management, and repetition until the submissive can serve effortlessly and without resistance.
https://submissiveguide.com/articles/fundamentals/how-can-i-train-myself-to-deepthroat/
Diapers (adult baby/diaper lover, AB/DL):
Incorporation of adult diapers for humiliation, regression, control of bodily functions, or fetish comfort. May include enforced wearing, wetting denial/release, or changing rituals under Dominant supervision.
Double Penetration:
Simultaneous penetration of two orifices (vaginal/anal, or anal/oral) using cocks, toys, or combinations. Heightens vulnerability, fullness, and objectification when orchestrated by the Dominant.
Dacryphilia:
Sexual arousal from seeing a partner/play partner cry — whether from pain, humiliation, overwhelm, or emotional release. For Me, tears are tribute; they signal the beautiful breaking point.
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